“Lovers don’t finally meet somewhere. They’re in each other all along.” -Rumi
Our Story
Emeka and Tiffany's love story began through a friend at their housewarming party. Though their initial encounter was uneventful, the two exchanged numbers at the end of the evening and they went their separate ways. In the days to come, they texted and called each other frequently, getting to know each other better and sharing funny stories. They quickly realized how much they had in common, including their love for their families, music, their careers, and their love of food.
About a week later, Emeka asked Tiffany out on their first date. He suggested they go to Beetlecat, a nearby restaurant he knew had a great atmosphere and amazing seafood. Tiffany accepted, and they set the date for happy hour on a rainy summer evening.
Emeka and Tiffany spent the evening chatting and laughing while enjoying delicious oysters and cocktails. As happy hour was winding down, they both realized that they didn't want the night to end. And it didn't - they continued the night at a Mexican restaurant, followed by a Wellness shop, and ended it at a nearby lounge that played the couples favorite 90s/00s Hip Hop & R&B.
"It was a beautifully curated evening, very well thought out. He had been listening to the things that I liked, and it showed. I felt like I'd known Emeka for years and was catching up with an old friend," Tiffany reflects.
And that was the start of their love story.
Now, as they prepare to stand together on their wedding day, Emeka and Tiffany are grateful for that chance encounter at that party and that rainy summer evening at the seafood restaurant that brought them together. They look forward to many more happy moments together as they embark on their journey as husband and wife.
“Who can find a virtuous wife? For her worth is far above rubies. The heart of her husband safely trusts her; So he will have no lack of gain.” - Proverbs 31:10-12
The Proposal
Emeka knew he wanted to propose to Tiffany on her birthday, and he had the perfect plan in mind. They had planned a trip to Negril, Jamaica, and Emeka had arranged for a romantic surprise at sunset.
On Tiffany's birthday, they spent the day exploring the beaches and soaking up the sun. Later that evening, they took a sunset stroll on the beach as they headed to dinner. The sky was painted with oranges, pinks, and purples, and the waves gently lapped at the shore. As they arrived and began to sit at their dinner table on the beach, they were greeted by a photographer who asked the couple to pose for a picture.
"It was never a matter of if but more of when," Emeka began.
"I didn't think he could pull off surprising me, but he did. I wasn't expecting it, at least not right at that moment," Tiffany chuckles.
Up until the dinner, that was the most memorable birthday Tiffany had ever had, and it was made even more special by Emeka's proposal.
They spent the rest of their trip basking in the glow of their love, excited for their future together as husband and wife. And every time they saw a beautiful sunset, they were reminded of the moment when Emeka proposed and their love story began a new chapter.
RSVP
RSVP
Our wedding takes place on April 20th, 2024. Our RSVP deadline has passed.
THE WEDDING
Venue Location
Our wedding ceremony and reception will take place at The Ballroom at the Carlos Center on April 20, 2024 at 3:30pm. Further details on events leading up to the wedding and day of wedding will be communicated closer to our event date.
The Ballroom at the Carlos Center
2500 Clairmont Rd
Atlanta, GA 30329
3:30pm - 11:30pm
Doors open at 3:30pm
TRAVEL
Travel & Accomodations
Welcome to Atlanta, the city where love and celebration come together!
Getting to Atlanta:
Atlanta is easily accessible by air, with Hartsfield-Jackson Atlanta International Airport being one of the busiest and most well-connected airports in the world. From the airport, you can reach the heart of the city via taxis, rideshare services, or public transportation options.
Accommodations:
To ensure your stay is as comfortable as possible, we have partnered with a selection of outstanding hotels in the area. These accommodations offer a range of amenities and are conveniently located near our pre-wedding events and wedding venue. Don't forget to mention our wedding when making your reservation to take advantage of any special rates or offers available.
We have a select number of hotel rooms blocked off at the hotels listed below, however for larger groups, we recommend staying at a nearby AirBnB or using Marriott's Homes & Villa Rental Service.
Don't Wait Too Late!
Spring time is high season in Atlanta and our wedding date is a popular one. Please make your arrangements as soon as possible for the best rates and availability.
HOME RENTALS
AirBnB
HOTELS
Embassy Suites:
Midtown ATL
Address: 290 17th St NW
Atlanta, GA 30363
Phone: (404) 844-4555
Group Code: CES91N
Atlanta Marriott: Northeast/Emory Area
Address: 2000 Century Blvd NE, Atlanta, GA 30345
Phone: (404) 325-0000
Group Code: EAWEAWA
The Whitley
Address: 3434 Peachtree Rd NE
Phone: (404) 237-2700
Group Code: Please see link below
THE SQUAD
The Wedding Party
Hers
Cliché, Matron of Honor
Sharece, Bridesmaid
Victoria, Bridesmaid
Jennie, Bridesmaid
His
Tobe, Best Man #1
Charles, Best Man #2
Franklyn, Groomsman
Obi, Groomsman
FAQs
Frequently Asked Questions
When will I receive the formal invitation?
Invitations should arrive to you no later than January 2024.
Yes, an RSVP is absolutely required by March 1st, 2024 for every invited guest. It is essential in planning for the ceremony seating and reception meals.
Do I need to RSVP?
Are children invited?
No. Our wedding will be an adults only event.
We are so excited for our special day, and carefully selected each of you to celebrate with us. While we would love to share our love with the world, our venue capacity is limited. Any plus ones that are invited are listed on your invitation.
Can I bring a date/guest?
We hope our wedding is an excuse for you to wear your favorite formal attire (American formal or Nigerian formal). Outfit inspiration ideas can be found on our What to Wear page.
What is the dress code?
Please plan to arrive at least 15 minutes prior to the start of the ceremony. If you arrive after the start of the ceremony, you will be asked to wait outside of the ceremony to join the cocktail hour/ reception.
What if I am running late to the ceremony?
Can I take photos?
We want you to be fully present with us to experience every moment and therefore this will have a completely unplugged ceremony. You are welcomed to take pictures during our reception.
Will there be parking available?
Parking will be available, however, we strongly recommend that you take an Uber, Lyft or a Taxi so that you can thoroughly enjoy the night.
Will transportation be provided?
Depending on your choice of accommodation, your hotel may provide transportation to and from the event. You will need to arrange this with your hotel. We are not able to arrange transportation for our guests at this time.
What is a hybrid wedding?
Since we are not having a separate traditional wedding, our wedding will incorporate aspects of both of our cultures. The clothing, food, music/entertainment will reflect both of us. We love a multi-cultural event!
What type of food will be served?
We are working with our amazing caterer to include Nigerian, Caribbean, and American cuisines for our day. There will be something for everyone to enjoy, but please let us know in your RSVP if you have any food allergies we should be aware of.
I forgot ones for the money spray. Help!
We will have someone onsite to change money/CashApp/Zelle into ones for you :).
Up until April 13th, 2024 - please feel free to text, call, or email us with any other questions at teamamadi2024@gmail.com. Afterwards (especially day of), please send any questions to our wedding planner.
Can I contact you if I have additional questions?
FAQs - WHAT TO WEAR
Hybrid Wedding Inspiration
Fun Facts - Nigerian / Hybrid Weddings
Owanbe
Before I continue with the fun facts, let me dispel a few irksome [but understandable] blunders I have come across.
- Unlike French, Spanish and German for example, ‘Nigerian’ is not a language. There are 371 tribes in Nigeria and they have different languages or dialects. So no, ‘Nigerian’ will not be spoken at any wedding you attend but you may hear a different language spoken.
- The largest and most commonly known tribes in Nigeria are Yoruba, Igbo and Hausa. Eager though you may be to show off your knowledge, asking someone “are you Yoruba, Igbo, or Hausa” is very limiting. If they, like me, hail from other tribes, it can feel like you are discounting us.
- Last but not least, calling an older Nigerian person by their first name is rude. Don’t do it. It may feel like we have lots of aunties and uncles (and truthfully we do) but many of the people we refer to as Aunty and Uncle, we are in no way related to. We use these terms as a sign of respect.
- If in doubt, ask questions! Ask the person who invited you if there is anything in particular that you should or should not do and you will be fine. Now the faux pas’ are out of the way, let’s get into it.
-Assumpta Vitcu
Note from Emeka and Tiffany: This by no means includes a full representative of Igbo or Nigerian culture. This is meant to serve as a foundational guide for anyone who has more questions about Nigerian weddings.
TRADITIONAL ATTIRE
One of the first things you may notice in Nigerian weddings are the beautiful and colorful traditional outfits the guests are wearing.
SPRAYING MONEY
Money spraying is a famous tradition in every Nigerian event. The guests spread the celebrants with money. The money spraying starts the moment the bride and the groom dance into their reception hall. Money that is sprayed is used to purchase whatever the new couple needs to start their new married life.
Family Entrance
The family and friends of the bride and the family of the groom will have their own special entrance during the reception, prior to the re-introduction of the couple.
OPENING PRAYER
Every Nigerian wedding reception starts with an opening prayer. The couple selects a friend, priest/pastor to perform the opening prayer. The is an act of honor to God for such a beautiful celebration. To invite God’s presence during the celebration, asking for God’s blessings upon the new couple, blessings for all the guests, and their safe travels back to their respective homes.
tHE FOOD!
As with every wedding, food is a big part of Nigerian weddings.
Expect to be served delicious jollof rice, fried rice, chicken, beef, fish, stew, plantain and if you’re lucky, pounded yam and a choice of soup to accompany it.
Nigerian food is very tasty and we recommend trying it all even dishes that look wildly unfamiliar. The flavor combinations and textures might surprise you, in the best possible way!
If some of this is too unfamiliar for you, we recommend you at least trying the jollof and peppered chicken or suya.
ASOEBI
Asoebi is a traditional uniform attire worn on a wedding day by friends and family as a way to show support for the happy couple.
MENSTYLE
The men wears are Senator Style, Atiku, Isi Agu top worn with trousers (women also wear Isi Agu material), or the traditional wrapper for the Igbo men.
What's better than 1 ENTRANCE? two....
At some point in the evening, the couple leaves to change into their second outfit of the evening, which is a matching traditional wear. Couples changing out of their formal wedding gown and suit into traditional wear mostly takes place in Igbo Nigerian weddings. This signifies their first outfit as husband and wife.
After the couple change into their second outfits, they are re-introduced to their guests.
MUSIC & DANCE
Music and dance play a major part in Nigerian weddings and feature mostly popular Nigerian Afro-Beats; as well as other popular Afro-Beats from other African countries such as Ghana, Tanzania, etc. Guests of all ages are welcome to hit the dance floor once this portion of the night has commenced.
REGISTRY
Registry
Your presence at our wedding is the best gift, but because you asked, please click below to see our registry :